8 Tahun

8 Tahun,

kadang lelah , penat , semangat, kadang juga menyenangkan bahkan menyenangkanya hingga berasa kita berdua pasti bisa menaklukan cobaan kejahatan dunia *Avengers kali ah Nis..

Ada tawa, canda trus sedih lagi ketawa lagi semudah kita menghirup udara buat nafas tetiba ada hari-hari dimana gelap gulita (bukan mati lampu ya cinn ) dimana senyum aja sulitnya minta ampun..ego kembali membuncah didada.bawaanya bete benci pengen kabur..( gue si, yang kebanyakan pengen kaburnya ;p)

Namapun kehidupan pernikahan nyatuin dua manusia yang wataknya bagaikan bumi dan langit. Seperti Chicco yang orangnya rapihan bak perpustakaan negara, gue berantakan ajigile…gak mudah, gak gampang emang. penuh perjuangan 45. mental harus sekuat baja lebih dari baja kalau bisa.. karena namanya hidup (pernikahan) masalah pasti akan selalu ada silih berganti bagaikan musim bergantian datang .

menikah itu butuh komitmen luar biasa, 8 Tahun emang belum ada apa2nya dibanding yang sudah menjalankan kehidupan pernikahan belasan bahkan puluhan tahun.

Mengutip tulisan Ika natassa ” hidup itu emang gak mudah, tapi kalau ada teman hidup yang cocok. seberat apapun masalah yang ada, paling gak kita tau kita gak sendirian dalam ‘perjuangan’ ini”

and yasss for many years to come Den !!! Lovyu to the moon and back

 

Ps : sebenernya actual anniversary kita itu di bulan Juli kemarin, tetapi karena kesibukan ngurus Ayah di RS, bolak balik sana sini. ampe kita lupa dan sedikit mencuri waktu dari kepenatan dengan menonton bioskop yang buat kita berdua itu sudah mewah sekali. maklum yess di HK kita jarang banget bisa berduaan apalagi nonton berduaan.

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4 Years Of LOVE !!

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Today, Chicco and I celebrate our 4 years of marriage!!

We met around March/April 2010 and it feels like not so long ago, like it was yesterday. Never thought in my mind that I will madly in love with this amazing man! I swear God that he never been my type, but here we are, all these years later with Bazyl coming into our life makes everything in our life more beautiful.

Marriage takes hard work, its like a rollercoaster ride but doesn’t mean its not worth it. I love Chicco more than he knows. I think its the best thing to happen in my life. It’s weird that after years and years, as new challenges come, and new amazing-crazy-things happening, I just find myself with a new-found-love for him. For us! It’s never the same but its getting better and better. There are different term of our love. All beautiful on their own right.

Chicco my dear, thank you for everything. We laugh together, cry together, fight, make up and will share many more precious moments in our life. I just love being stuck with you. Still madly in love with you and by the time I write this I just miss you so much till hurt. Even though I’m not the typical romantic type but I do miss you every minute of every day. I just cant wait to see you again, soon! Meanwhile, your crazy-bitcy wife just wanna say happy 4 years of (love) wedding anniversary from the bottom of her heart !!!

 

 

I LOVE YOU, Chicco !!!! always have always will …

Ps : our love story can read in Here